And baby makes 3

Well i do feel as if i have been slacking. I have not kept up with this as i had hoped i would, blame it on school and work! Any ways lets get started shall we? Yesterday i was out with a few friends and a certain young lady, who has popped out her second child and is under 23 was going on and on about how she wanted to have YET ANOTHER CHILD! Like really? You already can’t pay your bills, your not married and this is your second child with a DIFFERENT MAN, yet you want ANOTHER? I am not saying you have to be married to have kids, nor am i saying accepting help from the government is bad, but if you have no college degree, no plans on marrying the man, and want to have another? Yeah i think you need to evaluate your life and your goals. Kids are WONDERFUL blessings but as i have stated in previous blogs, it is not a competition. You start having kids at 18 and don’t stop until your 40 and thats how we have 19 kids and counting. What makes me more furious about it is that her MOM is GLAD she has YET ANOTHER! Like really? You do not want anything more for your child than to be a high school drop out and keep popping kids out? WTF! Am i the only one that sees the problem here? We get more excited in this town when people have kids than when they go to college. That my friends is FUCKED UP

 

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M is for mommy…or grandma

You know what gets me hot and bothered? Teen moms that do not want to raise their children. It makes me crazy when I see facebook post after facebok post of teen parents out partying and drinking. Now I know being a parent is hard, I am sure it will be the hardest job that you will ever love, but you decided to have that child young so you decided to kiss your social life away. Now I know moms need breaks and I am not for one moment saying that if you go out your a bad mom thats not it at all, I am just saying that as a young parent you have so much more to live up to. Peoples and societys expectations are greater for you. It makes me sad when I see on my facebook feed or hear from friends that most nights certain parents are ALWAYS out. Your child deserves better than that. If your kid is calling grandma and grandpa maybe thats a hint that you should be spending more time whith them. I am also NOT saying that just because your a young parent your automatically a bad one. I know many young moms that are way better parents than some adults but as always, there is a few that would rather go out and drink the night away than spend it in.

Going to the dogs?

You know what amazes me about the Havre police? How they never do ANYTHING important! Here is an example, I live on a not so good street, and my neighbors I am sure are dealing drugs? How have I come to this conclusion? Maybe it is all the people coming and going through all hours of the day or night? Or maybe it is that I have never seen anyone that LIVES in the house (besides the kids) come out. Either way I got sick of the honking and people screaming at each other and decided to call the police, here is what I got, “well there is really not much we can do”, you mean to tell me it is 2 in the morning and there is a 4 year old girl watching two gentleman kick the shit out of each other and theres “nothing you can do.” What the fuck do we pay taxes for again? Why don’t the police try working on real issues in Havre like the drug problems? Instead of doing things like pulling people over because they were “kind of going fast”, or I have even been told before that the Havre police will pull over girls if they are cute, give them a hard time and walk away with a phone number. How is this ok? And why is NOTHING being done about it? Unfortunately a town is only as good as the people who enforce the laws and sadly Havre is doing a poor job. Who has seen the white apartments with green trim across IGA? Have you seen the people that hang there? How there is ALWAYS someone standing outside 24/7 even when its negative 15 out and 1 in the morning? Is anything being done about that? NO! Instead we have the police wanting to ACT and flaunt their badge and act like gods gift to the world, when in fact I could do a better job than they can. Now I know living between reservations plays a toll on the town, I understand that but if we do not TRY to make things better than how will that? I stand by this, Havre is going to the dogs.

H is for Hospital

Anyone who lives in or around the Havre area knows what a wonderful medical facility we have in Havre. oh yeah I forgot were being honest. how is it possible to be that wrong SO MUCH?! Do not get me wrong I know there are some rockin people that work there who genuinely care about their patients but, there is a good chunk of em there just to get a paycheck. I have heard time after time from countless people about them going in and receiving poor care or even being wrongly diagnosed. Here is an interesting story, we all know that recently one of the doctors at the hospital had a heart attack. Instead of going to the E.R. getting stabilized and than flown out he decided to have his wife drive him all the way to Great Falls to receive care!! When doctors won’t use our facility what does that say about it? I can already here the arguments that people will make, that Havre is not equipped for heart patients, that is all fine and dandy but it still makes the point that he would not even trust the hospital to STABILIZE him. My other issue with NMH is confidentiality. Case and point, a few weeks ago I was in The Grind drinking coffee with a friend and catching up, in walks a NMH nurse, she proceeds to talk about the awful weeks she had and list off every patients she saw, what was going on, how they treated their condition, and if she thought it was done right or not. Can I say HIPPA violation?! This just hits the point home even more that even if I am on my death bed pump some aspirin in me and drive my ass to Great Falls!

Havre Montana Online Garage Sale

ImageAnyone that has ever used facebook knows about the havre montana online yard sale. And let me just say what a bunch of bullshit! You think  bullying is bad amongst young adults? Than you have obviously never looked at this webiste! People get upset if you share the same thing to many times! Only in Havre would you need someone to regulate the site to make sure it won’t get “out of hand”. Like really people? Who gives a fuck what ANYONE posts, if it bothers you THAT MUCH than obviously you spend TO MUCH TIME on it! I actually witnessed a posting war over a cell phone where one young lady posted she would like to purchase the phone and another person said she would take it. So what happens? They start posting snide comments about each other. Like really people! They were both over 25! I guess age does not make you older and wiser, it makes you crabby and unleveled. Another time i was on casually browsing when  see yet ANOTHER facebook war between a site user and an administrater. Basically the whole story was that the user felt that every time they posted on the site that administrater always took it down…let me begin by pointion out a couple of things, one, how many of you actually sell your shit? Obviously not many! I keep seeing the same crap posted again and again! And two, It is a freaking website! Stop getting offended like someone is smearing your good name! Jesus people if we all acted like adults and stopped whinning than maybe things WOULD get better. But we do live in havre, people are gonna piss and moan about anything they can! These days you do not even have to leave your houe anymore! Make a bag of popcorn and sit your ass in front of Havre montana online yard sale and you will have entertainment for HOURS!

Havre Montana Online Garage Sale

ImageAnyone that has ever used facebook knows about the havre montana online yard sale. And let me just say what a bunch of bullshit! You think  bullying is bad amongst young adults? Than you have obviously never looked at this webiste! People get upset if you share the same thing to many times! Only in Havre would you need someone to regulate the site to make sure it won’t get “out of hand”. Like really people? Who gives a fuck what ANYONE posts, if it bothers you THAT MUCH than obviously you spend TO MUCH TIME on it! I actually witnessed a posting war over a cell phone where one young lady posted she would like to purchase the phone and another person said she would take it. So what happens? They start posting snide comments about each other. Like really people! They were both over 25! I guess age does not make you older and wiser, it makes you crabby and unleveled. Another time i was on casually browsing when  see yet ANOTHER facebook war between a site user and an administrater. Basically the whole story was that the user felt that every time they posted on the site that administrater always took it down…let me begin by pointion out a couple of things, one, how many of you actually sell your shit? Obviously not many! I keep seeing the same crap posted again and again! And two, It is a freaking website! Stop getting offended like someone is smearing your good name! Jesus people if we all acted like adults and stopped whinning than maybe things WOULD get better. But we do live in havre, people are gonna piss and moan about anything they can! These days you do not even have to leave your houe anymore! Make a bag of popcorn and sit your ass in front of Havre montana online yard sale and you will have entertainment for HOURS!

Havre has it…..really?

Who from havre has not heard the saying Havre has it? But the question is what can Havre offer you? The anwser? Not to much, any one that has attended Havre Public Schools know it is all about who you know. Take the football team for instance, you could have all the talent in the world but if mommy and daddy don’t have the money or the last name you can bet your ass your going to be sitting on the sideline. What else does Havre have? Shall we touch on the subject of the police here? How if you even look at one wrong you are on their shit list. Or them pulling certain cars over just because they know who the driver is? How about how they walk around like they are king shit when in reality they are as important as the dirt on the bottom of you shoes. So before I sign off for the night ask yourself, does havre really have it?

Whats it really like…….

Havre is well known for a few things. Besides our awesome contributions to teenage parent statisics, were also known for our gossiping, back stabbing, affairs, and dirty little secrets. Don’t get me wrong we do have good qualities, I mean I can lie with the best of em! Havre teaches their young early to always have your game face on. All that aside havre is a wonderful place to live if you know the right people. It all comes down to a few things, who you know, your last name, or how much money mommy and daddy make. Think this town is right for you? I live in a town where popping out another kid ( even if you live welfare check to welfare check) makes the most interesting topics on my facebbok news feed. In a town where the police are as crooked as broken nose. In a place where instead of working your ass off to get what you need its easier to let the government support. In a town where ever one has a baby dad, boo, and lover. So tell me, is this town right for you?

Hello world!

My thought process on this blog is this, post what living in a small town is actually like. No bullshitting about how pleasant everything is. Little towns are good for two things, scandals, and gossip. Keep reading and see if you can put a name to instances I come across and post about.